In this article
Before you start
This page is one step of the salary negotiation learning path. If the question of what you earn now comes up, the page on what to say when asked your current salary covers it.
Why interviewers ask this
A negotiation conversation shows the other side how you behave when the stakes are personal, so how you handle the first number can shape the working relationship before day one. The topic also reaches interviews as a behavioural prompt in roles that involve deals, budgets or stakeholders, where candidates report being asked to describe a time they negotiated; the behavioural interview guide covers that format.
A weak answer accepts the number on the call, or asks for "more" without a figure or a reason. A strong answer shows you can stay warm, ask for the terms in writing, and make a specific request tied to evidence. A Staff-level answer adds judgement: which part of the package to push, what to trade, and how to close the loop in writing so nothing rests on memory.
Surveys suggest many people never try. A Resume Genius survey of American workers (page updated June 2026) found that 45% negotiated their starting salary and 55% accepted the initial offer without question. It is self-reported and from a vendor, so treat it as indicative.
Negotiating after a verbal offer from first principles
- Verbal offer
- A verbal offer is a job offer stated aloud, on a call or in person, that names a role and usually a pay figure but has not yet been put in a signed or written document, so its exact terms can still change.
- Offer letter
- An offer letter is the written document an employer sends after a verbal offer that lists the pay, start date and other terms, and is the version you should check before you accept.
In plain words
A verbal offer is like a handshake before a contract. Both sides are friendly, and both have said a number. The number is real, but the details are still open. The analogy breaks in one place. A handshake feels final, while a verbal offer is explicitly a stage before the written one.
So the offer is on the table, and that is the point at which salary talk is normal. Yale's career guidance says it is inappropriate to negotiate salary until an offer has been made, and an offer is typically when the employer first brings salary up. A spoken offer counts for that purpose, although the page itself only names "an offer has been made" as the trigger. This page treats a verbal offer as that offer.
In one precise sentence: you answer a verbal offer with thanks, a request for the written terms, and then a single reasoned counter, and you accept only the final written terms.
Step 1: Respond warmly without accepting
Respond warmly without accepting on the call. When the recruiter asks "are you in?", give enthusiasm and a next step, not a yes or a number. A sentence that works: "Thank you, I'm excited about this role. I'd like to review the full offer in writing and come back to you with any questions."
This answers the on-the-spot question without committing. It does not reject anything and it does not start a haggle by phone. Ask what the timeline is for your reply, and write the figure they said in your notes, including any bonus or equity they mentioned. Do not say the sentence "that sounds fine" by habit; it can be heard as acceptance.
You now know the first move: show interest, keep the answer open, collect the numbers. Step 2 turns the spoken terms into a document.
Step 2: Ask for the offer in writing
Ask for the offer in writing. A written offer lets you read every term calmly, share it with someone you trust, and compare it with what you were told. Ask for the base salary, bonus, equity, start date, and any conditions in one document.
Yale's guidance lists relying on a verbal acceptance of a negotiated offer as something not to do, and recommends saying the negotiated offer is suitable and that you would like to see it and accept it in writing. The same logic applies at the start: the written version is the one that counts for you.
Whether a spoken offer legally binds either side depends on where you are and on the facts, and this page does not give legal advice. The practical rule is the same everywhere: do not treat anything as settled until you can read it.
Input: the spoken terms. Output: a document. Step 3 uses that document to make your request.
Step 3: Counter with one number and a reason
Counter with one number and a reason. Pick a specific figure, say it once, and tie it to evidence such as the scope of the role or the skills you bring. A range invites the employer to pick its lowest point.
Here is how big to go, using an illustrative verbal offer of 100,000 in base salary. A 10% counter of a 100,000 verbal offer is 110,000, and a 25% counter is 125,000.1 The Resume Genius survey of 1,000 American hiring managers found that 42% are comfortable with increases in the 10% to 25% range, and that the median acceptable increase is around 22% (25% is the most common answer) (Resume Genius, updated June 2026). A 22% counter on the same base is 122,000 and a 40% counter is 140,000.1
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- A 10% counter of a 100,000 verbal offer is 110,000, and a 25% counter is 125,000.
- A 22% counter on the same base is 122,000 and a 40% counter is 140,000.
Input: the written terms and your evidence. Output: one number with a reason. A sample sentence: "Based on the scope of this role and what I'd be taking on, I'm looking for a base of 115,000 (illustrative). Is there flexibility there?"
Step 4: Settle and confirm in writing
Settle and confirm in writing. When the employer answers, compare the answer with your goal. If you agree, say the negotiated offer is suitable and ask for the updated written version before you accept it formally.
The employer may meet your figure, offer something between, or hold. In the Resume Genius survey (updated June 2026), 78% of people who negotiated their starting pay say they received a better offer.
A partial result is common, so decide beforehand what else counts: a signing bonus, equity, a review date or a start date. If the base will not move, ask whether another part of total compensation can. Then wait for the revised written offer, check each figure against the call, and only then accept.
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- Respond warmly without accepting on the call.
- Ask for the offer in writing.
- Counter with one number and a reason.
- Settle and confirm in writing.
Knowing it is half the job. Saying it is the other half.
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You've just received a verbal offer. How do you handle the negotiation?
I thank them and say I'm excited, but I don't accept on the call. I ask for the full offer in writing and agree a date to reply. Once I've read the terms, I make one counter with a specific number and a reason tied to the scope of the role and my results. I prepare a second item to trade if the base won't move, such as a signing bonus. Whatever we agree, I ask for the revised offer in writing before I accept.
What makes it Staff-level: it names the order of moves, keeps the ask specific, and includes a fallback so the conversation has somewhere to go if the first request is refused.
The spoken structure: warmth, written terms, one reasoned number, a trade, written confirmation. Say it as sentences rather than a list.
The rubric
| Dimension | Weak answer | Strong answer | Staff answer |
|---|---|---|---|
| Timing | Accepts on the call | Asks for time and the written offer | Agrees a reply date and states next steps |
| Tone | Defensive or too eager | Warm and professional | Warm, with a clear, calm ask |
| The ask | "Can you do more?" | One specific number | One number plus a fallback to trade |
| Evidence | None | A reason tied to the role | Role scope, market and impact together |
| Closure | Trusts the call | Gets the final terms in writing | Checks every figure against notes |
Three variants of this question
What if they want an answer today?
Ask what drives the deadline, and say you would like to review the written terms and reply by a date you name. Stay positive about the role so the request reads as care, not stalling.
What if I'm happy with the salary and want to change something else?
Counter on the part that matters to you, such as a start date, a review date or a signing bonus. The same steps apply: written terms, one specific request, and the final package confirmed in writing.
What if the verbal number is below what I hoped for?
Do not react with a number on the call. Ask for the written offer, then counter with a specific figure and a reason. If your own range is narrower than theirs, the guide on answering salary expectations covers how to frame it.
Common mistakes
- "Sounds great, I'll take it." (wrong) It commits before you have read the terms. (right) "Thank you, I'm excited. I'd like to review the offer in writing and come back to you."
- "I need more money." (wrong) It names no figure and no reason. (right) "Based on the scope of the role, I'm looking for a base of 115,000," using an illustrative figure.
- "I'd like something between 110,000 and 125,000." (wrong) A range invites the lowest point. (right) "I'm looking for 120,000."
- "They said yes on the phone, so we're done." (wrong) Spoken terms can differ from the document. (right) "Thank you; could you send the updated offer so I can confirm and accept?"
- "If I ask, they'll take the offer back." (wrong) In the surveys below, most employers had not done so. (right) "A polite, specific counter is a normal part of the process."
Follow-up questions
How do you negotiate salary after a verbal offer?
Thank them, ask for the offer in writing, then make one counter with a specific number and a reason. Confirm the final terms in writing before you accept.
Can they take the offer back if I negotiate?
Most employers surveyed say they do not. Yale's page reports that 87% of employers surveyed by Salary.com had never withdrawn an offer just because the applicant negotiated, and that 84% of employers surveyed expected applicants to negotiate after an initial offer (Yale, read October 2026). The Yale page gives no survey year, so read them as "most employers surveyed".
Should I accept a verbal offer on the spot?
No. Thank them, say you are excited, and ask for the written terms and a reply date. Accepting in writing after you have read everything protects you from misunderstandings.
Is a verbal job offer legally binding?
It depends on where you work and on the facts, and this page cannot give legal advice. Ask for the offer in writing, so the question rarely matters.
How much more can I ask for?
Hiring managers in the Resume Genius survey (updated June 2026) named increases of 10% to 25% most often (42% of them), and their median acceptable increase is around 22%. Ask for the figure your evidence supports, usually inside that band.
What is a negotiation worth over a career?
A successful negotiation compounds, because every later raise is a percentage of a higher base. With an illustrative 10,000 higher starting base and an assumed 3% yearly raise on pay, the gap is about 13,048 in year ten, and the ten-year total is about 114,639.1 The raise rate is an assumption, not a measurement.
- Respond warmly to a verbal offer and do not accept on the call.
- Ask for the full offer in writing and a date to reply.
- Counter once with a specific number and a reason, not a range.
- A 10% to 25% counter sits in the band hiring managers named most often; the median they accept is about 22%.
- Confirm the final negotiated terms in writing before you accept.
Before the call
Write your one number and your reason on a card, and say them aloud once before the call so that the counter sounds calm and short. Then write the one sentence you will say if they ask for your number first, and the one sentence you will say if they ask you to decide on the spot. Having both ready keeps the call from turning into an improvised negotiation.
Sources
- Salary Negotiations (Tips and Tricks) — Yale Environmental Transformation and Sustainability Initiative (undated page, read 2026-10-26), 26 Oct 2026
- Salary Negotiation & Expectations Report — Resume Genius (survey of American workers, updated 2026-06-05), 5 Jun 2026
